Archive for August 18, 2008

Personal Safety in Bangalore

I don’t want to be negative or scare people away from moving to Bangalore but it is important to have a full picture of life here.  Life in India gives a false sense of security, I think, for expats.  The reality, however, is that life in India can be dangerous.  Indians know this.  Look around.  Every house has gates, barred windows, sometimes a private security guard sitting in front.  People who live here know the dangers and take the necessary precautions.  We need to learn to do the same.

Here are a few things to keep in mind regarding safety.

Roads – Road accidents kill numerous people on a daily basis in Bangalore.  There is very little you can do to prepare but you should take a few simple steps.  Wear your seat belt and insist that everyone else does too – including the driver!  Make sure your driver is experienced (take a xerox of his license to keep in the car as well.  Keep babies and young children in car seats – even though it is not required by law.  Also a good idea to not send children alone with drivers until you know the driver very well and have had hin in your employ for a long time.

Out and About – don’t wear expensive looking chains out  on the streets – chain snatching is a favorite crime.  Keep your money in inside pockets.  Keep your cell phone someplace inaccessible to the outside world.  Be aware of your surroundings.  Don’t accept rides from strangers (more than one techie has been murdered taking a ride with a group of people.)

At home – make sure you use the boalts on the doors and windows – they are there for a reason!  Don’t talk to people about vacation plans.  Make sure all outside areas are also locked and secured.  Don’t let strangers into the house.  It is best if you have a way to talk to people (a window) without having to open the door.  Keep valuables stored in a secret location or in the bank.  Don’t keep money, cell phones, jewelry laying about the house.  You will have to decide how much security you want in your home.  Some people lock every cabinet all the time.  I couldn’t live that way and early on decided that if I had a maid or someone working in my house that I couldn’t trust – then I needed to fire them.  I have been VERY luck with having wonderful people working for me.  I keep one cabinet that we lock all the time.  We try to confine all valuables to that cabinet.  I trust my maid with my children so I also believe I can trust her with all the belongings in the home.  So far so good.

Kids – teach kids the danger of live wires.  Many, many times children hear are electrocuted by wires lying on the ground or by shoddy wiring of speakers and lights at public events.  Teach kids to stay away from stray dogs.  While most of the wild dogs don’t ever bother anyone, there have been instances of dogs mauling small children.  Teach kids how to identify snakes and what to do if they see one in the yard.  Make sure kids know who it is safe to go with and what they should do if no one is at home.

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What to do with kids in Bangalore?

We are discovering more and more options for kids activities every month!  That being said, there are still far fewer options than what we were blessed with in Portland, Oregon.

One of the main obstacles we find is the distance between places in the city and the horrid traffic you need to face to get from one place to another.  Due to the nightmare of driving in the city we really limit ourselves to places and events occurring in neighborhoods that are relatively close to where we live.

Here is the start of a list of places my kids really enjoy as well as places I have heard good reviews about.

Fun City – Oasis Mall, Koramangala.  This is a typical arcade and play area.  The nice thing is the location next to a good food court.  You can also check your children in to the play area and go down and do your shopping at Spar or Lifestyle.  The play area will call you when the time is up or if your kids have any problems.

Ameoba – Church Street.  This is a much larger arcade that also has a bowling alley and an eatery.  There are a number of good restaurants in the area as well.

HAL Museum - Airport Road.  This is a very little known but nice airplane museum.  There is space for kids to run around, a small snack shop, some planes and engines to look at.  It is nice for a few hours out of the house and the entry fee is very small!

Wonder-La – Amazing, world class water park and amusement park.  Entry prices are high but totally worth it for the experience!  The only negative review I would give was for the food – not a great selection.

Movies - There are a number of nice movie theatres all around Bangalore.  The think to keep in mind, however, is the high demand for seats.  It is best to book early (yes you can reserve movie seats!) and have the tickets delivered home ahead of time.

The Mall - if you have older children who like to hang out at the mall or even shop – then Bangalore will be a paradise for them!  There are huge malls all over the city and many new ones are planned to open in the next few years.  One note of caution – malls are generally considered to be relatively high on the terrorist threat list.

Classes – Dance classes, swimming classes, music classes, language classes – find out what people in your neighborhood are doing and chances are you can arrange something for your children too!  Lots of people come home to teach “tuitions” in all areas.  If you live in a community with a pool and a gym chances are you can joint swimming, “baddy” (badminton), roller skating, tennis, yoga and a variety of other classes.  All without having to drive anywhere!

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